Do you feel like an adult? I'm 35 and most of the time I feel like a moron. I mean I'm responsible so it's not like I'm immature but I look at other people my age and they seem to have it together. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up I know I'm socially retarded but I don't know if that its. I was engaged once and I thought that was an "adult" thing to do (unfortunately my fiance thought her ex-boyfriend was the thing to do) but other than that I don't have a clue as to what being an adult is, I feel like I'm 17 and goofy half the time. Can anybody relate or am I a lone socially retarded moron?