Hello I just bought a D-Lite 4 light kit, so I have 2 400 watt elinchrom strobes, 1 small and 1 medium sized softbox and yada yada.. I shot this with my nikon 50 1.8 and i have a few questions if anyone can help me out here.. 1. why suddenly is my viewfinder tricking me into thinking i have a perfect exposure, only to find that im 2 stops under when i open my raw editor?? i mean this happened alot when i was first starting, but it seems that lighting has thrown me into a new ball game.. am i confused? yep. 2. I realize that 400 watts is pretty powerful but is there anyway I can get away from using F14, 18, 20 etc. I find I lose sharpness in most of my lenses at this point.. I mean Ive been told to just move them back but for certain scenarios that will spread the light too much. yknow? anyways, heres my first go at shooting with my new lights, or any lights for that matter.. rather than critique, lead me in a direction..