Steve5D
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How can you say what he's concerned about ? And assuming its a small business when its not. Your assuming all these things from no where.. Portraying that's he's trying to get by and just earn a living and he's not being greedy.. Where in actual fact he has more than 1 restaurant and they are thriving. So don't know where your getting your poor business man concerned about the health of his business.. And at the end of the day you don't know the conversation I had with him what he said or how he came accross.. I think I have a better judgement of if he's greedy or not after the conversation I had with him.. You shouldn't assume
Yeah, because I've never done this before.
In the same post in which you tell me that I shouldn't assume, you present your assumption that he's well off. You seem to believe that having more than one restaurant equates to wild success. It doesn't, and I know more than one restaurant owner, with more than one restaurant, who would vehemently disagree with you.
You're not the guy for this job. You can't approach a job with the mindset that the client is wealthy and greedy, but it's pretty clear that's the conclusion you've reached. The bottom line is that you're not prepared to show him that there's a value in what you can provide. If you don't do that, there's no reason for him to agree with you, and certainly no reason for him to ever hire you.
You take issue with his being "greedy", yet you were willing to do the gig for free if he gave you more time to do the shoot, thereby further enabling the very greed you say you have such a problem with.
And how can I say what he's concerned with? Well, I own a small business. I have many friends who own small businesses, including restaurants. I know what our concerns are. I've also worked for small businesses, both as an employee and a contractor. I've watched the money come in and the money go out. I've made the decisions for what to buy for my business and what not to buy. I've worked with small business owners as a vendor, watching them struggle with choosing what items to stock and what not to stock. I've worked with them to show them that it was smart to stock what I was selling, while being mindful of the fact that even my biggest, multi-million dollar clients didn't have bottomless pockets. Along with being a pretty good photographer and having some business smarts, I've learned to read people and be proactive to getting them to see things my way, instead of having to react to them wanting me to see things their way.
In short, I have what you may be lucky enough to have one day: Experience...
No I was doing it for free from the beginning not if he gave me more time.. And I'm not assuming he is wealthy, I know he is. I live in a small enough town everyone knows everyone and he's known for being rich with his huge house and wealthy family let alone his business being jam packed.. And I did explain to him why I needed more time and like I said before he already knows why he wants the images to attract more business and to hang in the restaurant.. And with the experience thing its not to do with luck everyone gains experience.. Through trial and error. And as for you saying that I approaches the job with the mindset of him being wealthy and greedy firstly I know he is wealthy and second I didn't think he was greedy until it got to the point when he started saying about wasting food.
Whatever. You're ill-prepared for this undertaking.
Here's the bottom line: He comes to you. You tell him how you need to shoot it. He either agrees or he doesn't. If he doesn't, you move on; no harm no foul.
A former employer of mine bought a Hawker 850XP for $7 million. The business bought that. It made sense for the business to spend that money on a jet. We could get from San Diego to New York in a little over four hours. Some jet salesman somewhere was able to convince the owners of the company that it was a wise investment.
The two owners of the company also happen to be fabulously wealthy. One has a fleet of Porsches, and he keeps them in a warehouse right next to his six Ferraris. The other keeps a fully loaded Land Cruiser in Asia for when he feels like going camping. He bought a boat and wrote a check for it for $1.2 million. Both of them, though, watch their money very closely. If they don't believe there's a good reason to spend money, they won't do it.
Is that greed?
No, it's called "being smart".
I'm not saying that the restaurant owner is a genius, but he needs to be shown why there's a value in him spending the money on food for you to photograph. Simply put, you've failed to show him that value. Instead of accepting that you may well have fallen short, you lay the blame on him for being "greedy". I'm confident he could be turned to your way of thinking, providing it was someone other than you trying to turn him. I'm not trying to be demeaning, but you clearly don't have the chops for that...