Jaemie
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meh.. If I were in your position, I wouldn't spend any more time dwelling on either this thread or on the volunteer position. Your letter to the shelter could probably have been written better, but from what I can tell from your first post it wasn't that bad. Whoever read it, if anyone read it, probably got the impression you might have some issues with the job and decided against giving you the job. But we'll never know really what happened. That's it. In the absence of more evidence, further speculation is a futile exercise.
Unfortunately, however, by starting this thread you've allowed everyone the opportunity to sound off on a very sensitive subject that happens to be centered on you, and thus it has become personal. Nothing is ever resolved on the internet; ideas are twisted and agendas pursued and misunderstandings abound. As the saying goes, the more you say, the more fuel you throw on the fire, and in this case, because it's become personal, it's a fire under your own feet.
For whatever it's worth, I think your motives were virtuous, but your strategy was flawed.
Unfortunately, however, by starting this thread you've allowed everyone the opportunity to sound off on a very sensitive subject that happens to be centered on you, and thus it has become personal. Nothing is ever resolved on the internet; ideas are twisted and agendas pursued and misunderstandings abound. As the saying goes, the more you say, the more fuel you throw on the fire, and in this case, because it's become personal, it's a fire under your own feet.
For whatever it's worth, I think your motives were virtuous, but your strategy was flawed.