3 years ago, when I first got my cat, and she was introduced to her new home for the first time, she was so afraid..she slowly crept out of her little cat carrier, and it wasn't long before she found a place to hide...she was like that for about 2 days or so. Well...I just made the one hour trek with Kitty by my side, to my boyfriends house, to introduce her to her new 2nd home, and her new little brother Smokey...I figured she wouldn't be as bad this time, because she knows me and Erik, whereas last time, EVERYTHING was new to her. Well, I've been here for about 45 minutes, and kitty has not once walked into an area of the house that is out in the open..she is slinking in nooks and crannies and by the wall...and Smokey is sooo curious and wants to play with her...but once he gets about a foot from her, she hisses. The 10 week old kitten isn't afraid...but my Aliyah sure is! Right now, she's down by my feet in one of the little cubby holes in this desk. I feel so bad for my poor kitty! Anyone have experience in getting cats used to each other...or is it just a waiting game?