cooltouch
TPF Noob!
If you're leaning toward Sony, I would also recommend the A6000, for the reasons you first mentioned. There will be many times you'll be glad you have the EVF. And having a standard hot shoe makes things much easier when it comes time to mount a flash.
I own a Sony NEX 7, and the main reason why I bought it over the other NEX models was the EVF. Well, the 24.3mp also had something to do with it, but I knew I would need that EVF. Also, the main reason why I bought a MILC to begin with was so I could use my old legacy glass on a new digital. I have a rather large inventory of old Canon FD and Nikon and Pentax manual focus lenses that actually work very well on the NEX, especially with its focus peaking feature. So if you have some old glass, you might want to include that into your considerations as well.
I own a Sony NEX 7, and the main reason why I bought it over the other NEX models was the EVF. Well, the 24.3mp also had something to do with it, but I knew I would need that EVF. Also, the main reason why I bought a MILC to begin with was so I could use my old legacy glass on a new digital. I have a rather large inventory of old Canon FD and Nikon and Pentax manual focus lenses that actually work very well on the NEX, especially with its focus peaking feature. So if you have some old glass, you might want to include that into your considerations as well.