Dagwood56
No longer a newbie, moving up!
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2007
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- Can others edit my Photos
- Photos NOT OK to edit
Chris - I am nowhere near 4000 posts, but I can sympathize with much of what you said, in fact I was just saying many of these same things to my husband this morning. I come in here at times all hell bent that the attitudes are not going to bother me and I'll post like crazy for a day or two and then it all just falls apart. I find so many awful photos posted by people that I'd like to C&C on, but as you said, so many other admitted noobs have already posted and said how great that awful shot is, so how do you tactfully followup on that with an "Uh, I'm sorry, but your photo really sucks", so I leave without posting anything at all. Other times I'd like to say something positive about photos someone posts, but the opposite falls true - so many noobs have posted that the photos are bad that I feel uncomfortable saying that I like it - so I don't post at all. And all the threads about "what camera should I buy?" sometimes I'd like to post to these in all caps and say "Get whatever f**king one you want as long as you like it!" but thats not in my nature so I breathe a deep sigh and just leave without posting at all.
I miss the way TPF used to be a couple years back, when people here were more interested in really learning and helping others rather than bickering. When people gave tactful and helpful C&C and it was received as such, not attacked by the person who orignally asked for it. I'm getting quickly annoyed at the people who don't even take the time to read HOW to post photos and post numerous links to another site or have the photos thumbnail size with a message to cllick for larger photos. I don't bother with those either, this poor old soul still has dial up so much of the time I can't access those links anyway unless I feel like waiting for 20 minutes for them to load!
I know many blame the Mods and admin for the problems here, but in many cases its just lifes fast paced way of doing things these days "instant everything" so no one bothers to take the time to look for directions. Too bad there isn't a practical way to make some of the sticky threads a must read to all new users before they are allowed to make a real post.
I don't often post photos here anymore - the reason? Because the members whose opinions and C&C I respected, have either left or only pop in on ocassion. I hope you don't leave TPF, it would be a shame to see someone else who falls ito the afore mentioned group -fall through the cracks and vanish.
I miss the way TPF used to be a couple years back, when people here were more interested in really learning and helping others rather than bickering. When people gave tactful and helpful C&C and it was received as such, not attacked by the person who orignally asked for it. I'm getting quickly annoyed at the people who don't even take the time to read HOW to post photos and post numerous links to another site or have the photos thumbnail size with a message to cllick for larger photos. I don't bother with those either, this poor old soul still has dial up so much of the time I can't access those links anyway unless I feel like waiting for 20 minutes for them to load!
I know many blame the Mods and admin for the problems here, but in many cases its just lifes fast paced way of doing things these days "instant everything" so no one bothers to take the time to look for directions. Too bad there isn't a practical way to make some of the sticky threads a must read to all new users before they are allowed to make a real post.
I don't often post photos here anymore - the reason? Because the members whose opinions and C&C I respected, have either left or only pop in on ocassion. I hope you don't leave TPF, it would be a shame to see someone else who falls ito the afore mentioned group -fall through the cracks and vanish.