ok guys what do i do???>>>>

Calliope said:
I guess you can take a photo of the coven and tell him we are watching you guys right now! That'll scare him away! :twisted:

amen linda, it'll give him nightmares till the day he dies!..... i think even beating him violently would be preferable for him:lol:
 
Heck of an idea, there, Calliopallie ... We can get you to stitch a photo of all three of us together so he can non-chalantly leave it lying out ...

Pallie Protection: You tell ... we spell ...

:lol:

We got your six, Angelbaby ...
 
Calliope said:
I guess you can take a photo of the coven and tell him we are watching you guys right now! That'll scare him away! :twisted:

great idea, calliopallie....

a shot of us three should be enough to scatter the most stout hearted...

actually, after we get to meet, we will have a standard shot that we can use in black and white...with a bit of blood splashed around to make the shot incredibly scary...

but till then... you can use the pic of the house.... new and old...:mrgreen:

* and angel baby... tell me the when and where, and i will hex his sorry mouth breathing knuckle draggin, tongue drooling, limp d*ck self to the point he can't dial a phone......... :fangs: *

aint no thing but a thing......

you know...if you lived over here, it would be easier to guard your back...brother...
 
raven and the pallies, you can go ahead with my request to hex him till forgets how to speak, but just after i find out wether he really is gonna give me work tho huh..... i can imagine it now.... him saying, yea i'll give you the number for the art director of the bbc its........, wham..... a puff of smoke.... two shoes laying on the floor with a swirl of smoke pouring out of em..... damn! :lol:
 
I'll tell you something...
Last year I was eating a cake at my father's workplace "(they have a great canteen), and a bloke (ablut 42 yo) sit up to me and said "hello" in English. It came out he's Danish and works in the office a few stories up. He told me that he needs "help" and pays well. At the beginning it sounded... WEIRD! but I agreed to meet him (but I insisted on his office). I worked as his assistant for 2 months - earned a great cash (so I was able to travel to London to meet great people from TPF!!!! ), I was his "translator" English-Polish, Polish - English... but after 2 months he asked me if I'd go with him to Denmark (sp)... and I stopped. something was saying me "no" ...I just told him that... he's still a stranger for me and I don't want. I left the job, mostly because I started university and was really busy, but also because I didn't feel safe there...
 
thanks steve!..... he did look very similar to him actually :lol:

Hey mentos.... yea you did the right thing there....... got out at the right time..... but still made some money in the process ;) atta girl.... going away with him would have been a BAD IDEA!..... lucky for me im not a cute blond chick.... but i bet you'd still be able to give him a hefty slap eh minty :lol:
 
Angel - I wouldn't call or meet this guy anytime or anywhere. As everyone else has said red flags are flying all around. If he calls you back just tell him flat out that you have no idea who he really is and no way are you going to meet him in some private house or on his boat. Ask him for reputable references if he's sincerely interested in your work and if so, agree to meet in a public, business environment. Surely, if he's what he says he is, someone at the BBC can vouch for him. Bet he never calls back after all that...
The name Jeffrey Dahmer ring a bell ???
 
Yup. What they all said. Red flags!

He has met you twice. He has your card. He's seen your work. The ball is now in his court.
 
This is as I see it. I'm all for you protecting yourself both physically and psycologically but I'm sorry and I'm going to give this guy the benefit of the doubt.

You said you googled him and there was a missing "period" in his life and rumors about his coworkers, unless there is something more than that I think you are judging his personal life which isn't your place to do.

I'll give you a personal example of this. In my second year of Uni I did a tourism subject. I did a huge report on Western Australian Tourism. I handed it in thought I'd get a great mark. My lecturer sent me an email within the hour that he had failed me from the subject because I had plaigarised. What happened is I used a different referencing style (Harvard not APA). It was still referenced and there was no intent of plaigarism. I immediately sought help from my student union and I was advised to talk to my lecturer about it. Try reasoning. So I approached my lecturer. An old german fellow (who didn't really know anything about Australia Tourism). During this meeting he threatened my by saying that I should be glad he's not taking the matter further (as he is supposed to do by policy), and that this will burn me for the rest of my career, and that this is a criminal offence. I burst into tears.

A few weeks later he obviously let it slip in front of all my classmates and my other lecturers, and the head of schools that I was under investigation for plaigarism. I wasn't..he said he wasn't taking it any further. He publicly humiliated me and put my reputation on the line.

I've since put claims through to throw out the plaigarism charge and to also make complaints about his actions around me. There was nothing sexual by any means, but even now, a year on, my lecturers always show unnecessay concern over my assignments. No one will go in group work with me because they are suspcious. After many complaints this lecturer still hasn't apologised to me or the rest of the student body to clear my name.

This is just an example of why you shouldn't judge a person by what GOOGLE says about them. I've googled population statistic of america and results have been porn. Does that mean america's population is made up by the 300 million hits on Debbie does Dallas? No

For all you know his wife could have died from some terrible disease and was in mourning.

If there are other things that you haven't told us and don''t want then, that's fine but then heavely biasing your opinions doesn't really seem fair.

Do you have anyway way of reaching him? If so, have a chat about you having a chance to look at his work. Bace was saying girls "make men bu stuff and then leave etc etc" well that all has to do with power. If you feel uncomfortable, shift the power. By inspecting his work, and critically too (be harsh) he will either see you as a confident photographer and not intimidated by him.

As this guy shows you his expensive house and expensive boat, you'll become impressed and think "he stick with this guy and a bit of this could be mine", but show him that it doesn't matter(...hide the fact that we'd all really love that lifestyle)

Go and meet him. Tell a friend where you are going. Hell even have them near by. Tell them to ring you after about 15 minutes...You can then decide if you want it to be "an emergency and leave" or a "sure honey I'll bring milk home" call.
 
thanks dave and danalec for your input :thumbup:

pre-loved, i know what your saying, your story is true that you cant judge people by googling them, and it fits with what happened to you. However, its the other things i picked up way before googling that made me uneasy with him. To be honest i didn't really learn much from googling him anyway, but like you say the internet is full of libel and not to be trusted.

I do have a way of contacting him if i wanted too, but to be honest the more i think about everything i took in from meeting him, the more i think it definately seems dodgy. I'm not a very naive person and can usually figure people out quite quickly, so i may have to trust my instincs on this one. He may well work for the bbc.... that part doesnt bother me... but being a legit tv worker doesn't really mean that the guys 'ok'... the few people i know or used to know who do work for tv are..... how can i put it.... wild!, they were constantly going to wild drug fulled parties and getting up to all kinds of stuff. So in my eyes, knowing he works for the bbc or not, doesn't really effect his intentions.
I may well meet him again.... but in a very public place ;)
Thanks again.
 

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