I wanted to see what you would do. This is mainly more for the men than the women. But Id like to hear the womens side of this as well. Heres the situation: You are at the mall with your son. You are 32 years old and you have your 5 year old with you. After some father son time at the mall hanging out in the arcade and checking out women together you head out to the car to go home. While you are opening the car and getting it ready to put the kid in, your kid puts his hands on the car parked next to you. Its a new car, but it hasnt been washed in a long time, so there are handprints. You take the kid away from the car and brush his hands off when the owner of the van comes out of nowhere. The guy starts flipping out. He goes off swearing up a storm at the kid. Then telling you to control your kid and yelling a bunch of other lessons to teach your kid, and that he now wants to teach you a lesson by kicking your butt. Heres where you have a decision. Do you A, ignore the guy, put the kid in the car seat and quietly drive away? Or do you B, put the kid in the car seat, turn around and take the guy out? (You know the guy doesnt have a gun and that you could take him down no problem) I think in many ways the world wants men to all be nice guys. The world expects us to fold our hands, sit down with some tea and listen. That, there is no reason for violence of any sort. I know what every man in this forum would WANT to do. I dont care who you are, every man would want to turn around and punch him in the nose. And if you chose to just walk away, you wouldnt be able to sleep that next few nights because you really wish you would have hit him. Im still not sure what I would do. I know what I would want to do, but I dont know if I would do it. What would you do? Or ladies, what is your opinion?