Allow me to pose a hypothetical situation to you... Say there was a 17 year old guy who works full time, has his own apartment, is almost done with college, etc... and he meets a 22 year old girl, unmarried with a 3 year old daughter, on...I don't know, say, the bus. Let's say the 22 year old girl is really pretty, and the 3 year old daughter is absolutely adorable, and the 17 year old finds himself becoming attracted to the mother. Say he asks the mother if he can take her and her daughter to lunch, as a date, sometime, and she accepts. And say they keep on seeing each other every day on the bus (Even though that bus gets the 17 year old to work really early and he'd like to sleep in an extra 40 minutes), and things are going great, and the 22 year old seems to really like the 17 year old. Is that too awfully weird?