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Damn You!
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see you could say summin to her.... to get the gears moving a bit faster..... but there's a fine line..... on the one hand you often hear "you have to fight for what you want"....... and on the other there's the "your a bad guy if you ruin a relationship".
But one shrink told me.... (i say one cuz theres been many)... that its not the 'third' persons fault if the couple break up..... there must be some degree of unhappiness already existing in the relationship...... or at least from one side.... so if you hooked up..... it isn't really your fault.... its her decision that she doesn't want to be part of her existing relationship anymore..... this also means that he shouldn't have the right to beat you up.....:mrgreen: ...... but you can only say 'shouldnt'
But one shrink told me.... (i say one cuz theres been many)... that its not the 'third' persons fault if the couple break up..... there must be some degree of unhappiness already existing in the relationship...... or at least from one side.... so if you hooked up..... it isn't really your fault.... its her decision that she doesn't want to be part of her existing relationship anymore..... this also means that he shouldn't have the right to beat you up.....:mrgreen: ...... but you can only say 'shouldnt'