Sighhh

[ilyfel]

So.. I havn't been on here long.. but I feel like you guys are already family.

Just so everyone knows.. I'm officially single. It happened about ohh... 10 minutes ago. I move my stuff out saturday.. =[

I need someone to cheer me up!!


Felisha

 

[Alex_B]

but things can only get better now...

:hug::

even though last time I hugged you I got banned for it

 

[ilyfel]

lol I won't ban you in this thread, I had to in the last one!

 

[Alex_B]

lol I won't ban you in this thread, I had to in the last one!

true! And you know I only was mean because I had to

 

[ilyfel]

I know, I know.. I'm sooo upset. But I guess I'll get over it.

 

[Alex_B]

That is a good start ... it would actually be strange, if you were not upset I think.

hope you find a normal-ish every day rhythm without him soon. that helps.

 

[ilyfel]

Yeah.. Well it hasn't been perfect for a while now...

OHHHH well... *tear*

 

[Sideburns]

hey...your family is always here for you.
(I mean us...in case you didn't pick that up.)
Hope you cheer up darling.

 

[ilyfel]

Thanks. Its going to be hard. And now my pictures are going to be either amazinger(?) than sh!t, or sh!tter than sh!t because of this.

 

[Mitica100]

Hey Lish, things are lookin' up! Cheer up, girl. :hugs:

 

[ilyfel]

lish??

It's really a complicated sad situation.. I guess I'm just glad to be free and myself again. I just hate the thought of being alone.

 

[ferny]

So, we'll see you at the Nodnol meet then? :mrgreen:

 

[Chris of Arabia]

Having been there myself once, I think I understand the heartache. Hopefully you won't feel down for too long and can get back on with your life in time (great healer and all that).

 

[ilyfel]

Welll... Sorry I wasn't online earlier today to talk to you great people! I had to move all of my stuff out. And now I'm at the moms. GREAT!! I guess I'm relieved to be gone.

 

[Lisa B]

You know, I always find that every time I broke up with somebody I re-discovered myself and my work/photography/art/life got better for it because there was more time for me to discover myself again - which it turned out, I was being held back from In rubbish relationships with people that were nice, but too nice and had no interest in anything I wanted in my life. I took a year break after my last relationship and focused on all the things I had meant to do for myself for years - I'm now a selling artist, better photographer and I even found the "one" guy, who I married within months of meeting him! He's a complete compliment to me because he's all arty and musical and creative etc...I would never have figured us out or been where I am now if it wasn't for that year I spent re-setting myself.

You can get a lot of positives out of a really negative crappy situation like a break-up! And remember, one morning you will just wake up and feel better. Which sucks till then, but its all part of the bigger process! You'll be fine

xxxxx