So really the goal is to have enough lighting to not use flash? If I only have a point and shoot and don't have enough lighting, is there any way to use a flash without sacrificing picture quality? Are there any point and shoots that you can use an external flash with? I'm so confused about flash because a lot of my pictures look too flashed! What about when I'm just shooting indoor snapshots of my daughter and the lighting isn't good, what do I do then? Please help me or lead me to a site/book (preferably site so it's free and easily accessible) that can give me the info I need! TIA P.S. Sorry if this is a stupid question!