jcdeboever
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Well, I guess I screwed up again.... not sure how to avoid that situation. I am not a jealous person in regards to my wife, is that bad? If my wife wants to stray, just don't let me find out is how I look at it. I take good care of her, she has a maid, a new car, a nice home close to HER family, no debt, and I try daily to do my homework but she cuts that off, I am like Raymond Barone.
Well the wife obviously has an issue here, so best bet is just to avoid this skank landscaper entirely. Take the wife out to a nice dinner or do something nice for her that she'll enjoy. If she brings it up again - apologize, just tell her you didn't mean to upset her but obviously you did and your sorry. She got the vibe that you were interested and that the landscaper was interested, that's why she reacted the way she did - doesn't matter if any of it was true.
On the upside it also means she still cares, so there is that.
I never voided her. Why do I apologize? She gave me flowers to my surprise! I am not sorry for anything I had no control over. If anything, she owes me an apology for acting like a stupid grade school girl and embarrassing me. Her actions constituted mistrust in me. She was really mad at the skank, I get that but to put it on me is her deal, not mine. She can go file for all I care, I will not accept being treated with mistrust as I am a loyal, ethical husband. This is something to do with menopause I think. F*** I don't know anymore, all I know is that I work hard at being a great man to my wife and it goes unnoticed.