I've been playing with the settings on my camera. I have been trying to take a few shots of the kids, however they don't like the "flash", so I've tried different modes to make the flash not go off. Problem is that the modes are too slow and everything is a blur......they are fast!! I put it in Manual and played with the setting a bit, but most of the pictures are black? Jet black, blank, nadda! The camera is lighting fast, do I have the shutter speed too high? Is that possible????