Well, I've figured this would happen eventually. I was given the heads up from my wife that my brother in law is planning on asking me to shoot his wedding. Most of my photography to this point has been nature and landscape shots with some informal portrait work so my initial reaction was to turn down the gig. He is looking for more artist / stylized shots than traditional and he's seen my shots so he knows how what my stuff looks like. As of now I'm really on the fence. I'd like to come through on this for him but I'm about 60% confident in my ability to truly capture a lot of good shots. The good part is that they're planning the wedding for next December so I have plenty of time to learn and practice portraits, buy a flash (Nikon SB-800) and start studying poses and pictures. So does anyone have any advice or tips for portrait / wedding / flash photography? I'm all ears.