maytay20
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So I did a wedding last weekend. It all starts with I got there at 2pm a half an hour early, bride arrives 2:45 late of course. Bride and bridesmaids were not ready until 3:00p we started formals as soon as all of the groomsmen and the groom were ready. I then took 47 formals of the bride, groom, groomsmen, bridesmaids and flower girl. At 4:30 I was told everyone had to go back to there separate rooms so I took a few more photos of the bride, bridesmaids in her room. After that the ceremony started and I took photos throughout the ceremony as was discussed with the bride. IE I took flash photography and did move around to make sure I got good shots. (not a lot but she made me aware that she wanted shot from all over the church during the ceremony) The mom said she didn't like the noise of my camera. After the ceremony the bride did not do a receiving line like was planned and the whole wedding party went to one of the rooms to wait for the guests to leave. I was not aware this was going on and was in the church ceremony area waiting for them to come back to continue the formal photos. When they did finally return I took a total of 23 more formals before they decided they didn't want anymore they wanted to get down to their guest at the reception hall and they left. I left to go to the reception hall and ended up having bad directions and I got lost. I arrived to the reception 2.5hrs late because of this. But all I missed was the grand entrance and the toast. I finished the night got all of the rest of the photos needed then left to go home. Mind you I got lost again and didn't get home until 1am.
Now on to today I get a call from the bride’s mom. Who was never at our meeting and did not discuss anything with me before the wedding. She wanted compensation for the amount of time that I was lost saying that I should have gotten more formal photos, asking me why I refused to take formal photos with the grand parents, (I never did, the bride and groom said no to them) and she also stated that they wanted more photos at the reception site and the bride had told me if we had time we would snap a few photos there. The brides mom also had a problem that I was doing flash photography and moving around during the ceremony. She also had a problem with the fact that she had to find people to get them there for the formals. It was stated ahead of time that I do not search for people if I did we would have gotten even less shots. She also asked why I had the church turn the lights up. I did not ask for this it was actually so bright it is taking me more time because either the brides dress is too bright or the rest of the photo is super dark and the dress is perfect.
Now I offered her a reshoot on the missed photos she said there was no way they could rent tuxes again and that the bride had ripped her dress to there was no way.
Now here is were I am standing I could
A. give them their $700. back and they get no photos. (If I do a full refund I will not release any photos)
B. give them a dollar amount off from a wedding book.
C. Give them a percentage off the sheets.
Mind you I did still get I estimate 550 pictures total that turned out.
I am just not sure what to do. And I do usually confirm directions with someone but they all took off that fast.
Thanks for any input, Mary
Now on to today I get a call from the bride’s mom. Who was never at our meeting and did not discuss anything with me before the wedding. She wanted compensation for the amount of time that I was lost saying that I should have gotten more formal photos, asking me why I refused to take formal photos with the grand parents, (I never did, the bride and groom said no to them) and she also stated that they wanted more photos at the reception site and the bride had told me if we had time we would snap a few photos there. The brides mom also had a problem that I was doing flash photography and moving around during the ceremony. She also had a problem with the fact that she had to find people to get them there for the formals. It was stated ahead of time that I do not search for people if I did we would have gotten even less shots. She also asked why I had the church turn the lights up. I did not ask for this it was actually so bright it is taking me more time because either the brides dress is too bright or the rest of the photo is super dark and the dress is perfect.
Now I offered her a reshoot on the missed photos she said there was no way they could rent tuxes again and that the bride had ripped her dress to there was no way.
Now here is were I am standing I could
A. give them their $700. back and they get no photos. (If I do a full refund I will not release any photos)
B. give them a dollar amount off from a wedding book.
C. Give them a percentage off the sheets.
Mind you I did still get I estimate 550 pictures total that turned out.
I am just not sure what to do. And I do usually confirm directions with someone but they all took off that fast.
Thanks for any input, Mary