WARNING LONG, somewhat venting,and need some help Alright so I've got a question that's been driving me nuts and can't get it out of my head. I met this guy a couple of weeks ago at barnes and noble where we were both looking at PS books. He introduced himself, we talked for an hour he gave me his phone number and email, and we talked a few times since. Then we decided to meet up and were going to swap some tips and disks. I met him yesterday in his town about 30 miles from mine. He met me at a photo store and then we went to a park to take pics and he taught me some PS stuff. Things went really well, didn't seem awkward or anything. But then (about 5:00) he told me he had to be somewhere at 6, and we had just gotten together at 4. I understand that he probably had other plans, but I wish I would have known. I was going to be in town anyway, but I was sort of led to believe that we were going to hang out for quite a while. Anyway, when he leaves, he shakes my hand and gives me a 10% discount coupon to a local restaurant. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? He was quite flirty with me the whole time, and in previous talks before. I guess I'm just confused on whether or not he is wanting a friendship or something more...so he said to call him this week and we could probably get together again next saturday. I'm really confused at this point. Also I find out that next sunday is his bday. So today I called him to see if he wanted to get together for his bday and do something, and he said he would call me back later in the week and let me know. I'm not the relationship type person here, so I'm a bit confused. Guys, what does it mean when you shake a girls hand ask to get together again and then sort of blow her off? I think maybe he's just nervous or something, but I need some help here. I'm totally cool with being friends, or vice versa, but I'm seriously confused at the moment and actually am finding this rather funny So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for letting me vent once again!!