I wasn't going to explain this to him, but then I realised I couldn't be bothered to waste my breath!
I mean, I am likely to buy a D600 if it comes, that's why I needed to talk about equivalence. I just want some time to decide. If I were to buy my current setup immediately after I made up my mind before, I would have gotten a totally different setup. More time to decide means less wrong choices. Sorry for not stating that if I'm not clear.
I will try one last time. 'Equivalence' is telling you what f-stop you need to set on a FX lens on a FX body to get the same DoF as a DX lens of the same focal length on a DX body. It does not change the fundamental properties of a lens - the maximum f-stops of the lenses are what they are because of the lens design and do not change with different formats. The differences are that FX lenses have a larger image circle than DX lenses so that they can adequately cover the larger format. As format size increases so a lens has to be stopped down further to give a particular DoF compared with a smaller format. You do not need to use equivalence just because you might buy a FX body - you just need to understand that a DX lens will not cover the full FX format satisfactorily but even if it did it would still have the same maximum f-stop as when used on a DX body. 'Equilivance' as you are using it is a means of determining what lens setting to reproduce DoF when using different formats - it is not some magic formula that can change the characteristics of a lens between formats and cannot be used to compare two lens in the way that you are doing. Over and out.