No I can't. It should look like what you originally invisioned your final image to be before you even pressed the shutter button. Begin with the end image in mind. If you originally imagined the end image to look over processed then that's how the end image should look. If you originally wanted it to look more natural than that's how it should look.
Photography is MUCH more satisfying when you create the image you saw in your mind before pressing the shutter. Taking a photo and then "trying" to make something of it later on the computer will always fall short.