I'm a newb in photography but I think the correct answer was already given: there is no such thing as 'correct exposure'

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Yes there is.... there has to be a correct exposure - but equally the answer is actually there are many correct exposures for the same scene.
If the exposure is wrong it must be either over or under exposed - and this may not be a good thing. Best to always aim for a correct exposure.
Lets say you meter a scene and it gives a correct exposure as
ISO 100
F stop 16
Shutter Speed 1/125
Now here's some other correct exposures for the same scene
ISO100
f11 @ 1/250th or
f8 @ 1/500th or
f5.6 @ 1/1000th or
f4 @ 1/2000th or
f2.8 @ 1/4000th
all you have changed here is the depth of field but the exposure will remain the same (same amount of light reaching the sensor)
Regards depth of field 4 things affect this.
Sensor size (crop cameras have different dof values to FF)
Focal length
Distance to subject (distance to background will affect how this looks)
Aperture size
Look at a depth of field calculator and see the differences each change makes to the potential depth of field.
http://www.dofmaster.com/dofjs.html
The longer the F/L the shallower the depth of field
The closer your are to a subject the shallower the depth of field will be
The larger the aperture the shallower the depth of field.
If you are 3m from a subject with a 200mm lens set at f2.8 and using a 1.6x crop camera the depth of field would be very narrow - 2cm!!!
Standing at the same spot and using a 17-55 lens set at 17mm @ f2.8 the depth of field would now be 4.81m so focal length has transformed the image.
Moving further away from the subject in example 1 would give this
You're now 20m from a subject with a 200mm lens set at f2.8 and using a 1.6x crop camera the depth of field would now be 1.06m so distance to subject matters a lot too.
Finally opening the aperture - lets look at examples 1 & 3 with the long lens
If you are 3m from a subject with a 200mm lens set at f16 and using a 1.6x crop camera the depth of field would still be very narrow at just 13cm!!! Distance to subject and focal length used still maintains that narrow dof.
You're now 20m from the subject with the 200mm lens set at f16 and using a 1.6x crop camera the depth of field would now be 6.16m.
Last one is a 100mm Macro exposure. Say 10cm from the subject at a narrow aperture of f16 (on a 1.6x crop camera) - the depth of field is so narrow (0mm) that you probably need a very steady tripod to be accurate - and if the subject moves!!! Well good luck. It seems distance to subject and focal length make the biggest difference to depth of field.
There's a huge number of different settings that give a correct exposure and it's down to the photographers creative ability to get the one that expresses what he wants to portray an image.
Hope this makes sense
Cheers
Jim