First, I have processed thousands, let me repeat that for you, thousands of 8x10 and 12x20 negatives and the advice I gave is based on that experience and the fact I was mentored by two well respected and accomplished contemporary photographers, who knew and photographed with many members of the Weston family. And, some of the advice above was passed on to them, and from them to me. So please make no assumptions about my level of understanding of how to process film.
People are more than welcome to try methods other than I have presented, I have no hard and fast rules, as long as it is done with care, quality and consistency. Is there anything in what I wrote above that says “This is how it has to be done?” But, I am sure you follow everything you have read and follow all the “rules” of how to make a photograph as well.
Film is no more or less likely to be damaged emulsion up or down, it comes down to a matter of care. I prefer emulsion up and flat bottomed trays based on experience, not because I read it in a book.
Yes, successful development can be done with less than 4 negatives, but again based on my experience development is more consistent with 4 or more and I have found that my students find it easier to start with 4-6 negatives because it is more conducive to producing a good development rhythm. If you want to process less go ahead, if you can’t handle processing more than 10 negatives, don’t.
My advice on taking care and guarding the film when placing it back on the stack says nothing about pushing corners down onto the stack. If you are unclear what something means, ask instead of making up an argument. So let me spell it out for you, keep a hand or finger on the bottom edge of the film so you don’t plunge a corner down into another negative, but I guess I already said that, perhaps reading comprehension is not your strong suit. Or, you could just ask for more clarification.
Just because you have never experienced pinholes, which says something again about your experience with sheet film or would that be a lack of, in a negative from an acid stop doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen or that it’s from poor water quality. You may want to do some more research on what the more obvious reason for pinholes in emulsion and acid stop baths is. Just ask, I’d be happy to explain it to you
Finally, don’t go spouting off about someone else’s experience without knowing all the facts or asking for clarification, because when you try to show us how smart you think you are, you’ll end up looking like an … well, I am sure even you can read between the lines there.