Thanks everyone! ABABYSEAN...I am taking your challenge tomorrow and doing my homework! I like hearing the settings too because if I then have questions pertaining as to why you used those settings I can ask. Sometimes I think we all learn better by example so seeing actual tangible work with settings that I could POTENTIALLY use, is extremely helpful. I know that depending upon SO many things, settings need to be changed and yet, I find this so helpful.
When you told me that you really wanted the eyelashes in focus and that is why you used 2.2 it showed me that you can fill your frame in a way that softens the rest of the image, without being blurry, and yet still have your main focus, sharp.
I also checked my settings in my camera and i think I know why I was struggling with so much blur and noise despite taking your advice. You see, what happened was I tried bumping my ISO to 800 one day so I could keep my shutter no slower than 1/200 but I had such grainy and blurry pics. I even opened up my aperture to 5.6 and stood pretty far back from my subject. (about 10 feet away) You see my sharpness settings in my camera were set really low and my default ISO, EXTREMELY HIGH. Once I changed these, I began to see that I could raise my ISO with out unimaginable noise (you had to see these pics...terrible!) So I had taken the advice but was so ashamed with the photos and couldn't believe this could be right. One night I really delved into my camera and explored and that is when I found those settings to be off.
I'm psyched to try all these suggestions out tomorrow! I literally have them written down.

< taking notes like a huge dork!>