I've been on this forum long enough to know that there are some people who get on here just to be rude. Why they do it, I don't know and I don't care- that's their problem. I am at the very beginning stages of learning photography, and there are times when I want to post a question and get answers from people who know what they're talking about. I usually end up not posting my questions, because I think,
"what if what I'm asking is something that presses one person's buttons, another chimes in, and that sets off the insults?" I don't believe in censorship, but I do believe in treating people with damn respect. It's a lot easier to disrespect someone through your monitor and keyboard than it is to their face, so I think that's why a lot of people feel it is ok to be rude on a forum.
The first time I posted a question on this forum, I was asking what lens I should buy for wedding photography. I was going to my cousin's wedding as a guest, and I saw it as an opportunity to get some great photos, and learn from the photographer (who had offered his help to me, I didn't ask). When I posted this question, some saw it as an opportunity to inform me that I was a nuisance to the professional photographer, that I should leave him alone, that I shouldn't be doing weddings because I am just a beginner, etc. etc. you get the point. Others gave great advice that I was thankful for, but I almost never came back after that because what's the point of being berated just to ask a simple question?
Anyways... to the OP I really don't know what to tell you because I don't charge for shoots yet myself! I know... not helpful at all
