Cool2bahdude
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Alright, Let me introduce myself. I am a HUGE lurker on this site. Pretty sure this is my first post, yet I check this site multiple times everyday. So I know all the big posters here, and recognize who could quite possibly start trouble in this thread Anyway, recently a situation has popped up, and I've decided to actually post in these forums, because I'm pretty sure that something similar has happened to someone more knowledgeable here.
So... I attended a friends wedding a few weeks ago. I brought my camera along, because this was the first wedding I attended since I got into photography, and I wanted to at least take a few pictures, but mostly watch the hired pro and talk to her for a bit during the reception. A lot of my good friends I haven't seen since the summer were also at the wedding, so I barely took any pictures because I was more interested in catching up with them. I ended up with 9 pictures making it through lightroom, which I posted on facebook, not advertised as my own wedding, just showing that I was there, and that I did have a camera with me.
A few days after I posted these pictures, the father of the Bride messaged me saying that he really liked the pictures, they were of professional quality, and that the were worth money anywhere in the world. I thanked him for the compliments and went on my way. About a week later, he messaged me again, asking if I could send him the pictures that I took for "family history and such". I stalled by saying that all I took was up on facebook, just the nine pictures. He said that he especially wanted three pictures, one of the bride, one of the who party walking across the field, and then one of his other daughter, who was a bridesmaid.
At this point, I ask those who are more knowledgeable than me, should I send this guy the images of his daughter at her wedding? My gut reaction was to not send them, because I felt that offering full size images free of charge would undermine the hired professional. I've seen the previews of what she took at the wedding, and it's great stuff. When looking at her prices on her website I honestly think she is selling herself short. But on the other hand, it's not like I could charge for the pictures and be in an any better place... So I really don't know what to do. I think that people with a PnS would hand out pictures more readily than I would, simply cause they aren't aspiring photographers and don't realize that there was someone shooting there to make their living off of... I don't know...
So if you guys could chime in on what you think I should do in this situation, that'd be much appreciated.
So... I attended a friends wedding a few weeks ago. I brought my camera along, because this was the first wedding I attended since I got into photography, and I wanted to at least take a few pictures, but mostly watch the hired pro and talk to her for a bit during the reception. A lot of my good friends I haven't seen since the summer were also at the wedding, so I barely took any pictures because I was more interested in catching up with them. I ended up with 9 pictures making it through lightroom, which I posted on facebook, not advertised as my own wedding, just showing that I was there, and that I did have a camera with me.
A few days after I posted these pictures, the father of the Bride messaged me saying that he really liked the pictures, they were of professional quality, and that the were worth money anywhere in the world. I thanked him for the compliments and went on my way. About a week later, he messaged me again, asking if I could send him the pictures that I took for "family history and such". I stalled by saying that all I took was up on facebook, just the nine pictures. He said that he especially wanted three pictures, one of the bride, one of the who party walking across the field, and then one of his other daughter, who was a bridesmaid.
At this point, I ask those who are more knowledgeable than me, should I send this guy the images of his daughter at her wedding? My gut reaction was to not send them, because I felt that offering full size images free of charge would undermine the hired professional. I've seen the previews of what she took at the wedding, and it's great stuff. When looking at her prices on her website I honestly think she is selling herself short. But on the other hand, it's not like I could charge for the pictures and be in an any better place... So I really don't know what to do. I think that people with a PnS would hand out pictures more readily than I would, simply cause they aren't aspiring photographers and don't realize that there was someone shooting there to make their living off of... I don't know...
So if you guys could chime in on what you think I should do in this situation, that'd be much appreciated.