MACollum
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You very much can be too over protective of your children and that is the problem.
1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18.
1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 18.
1 in 5 children are solicited sexually while on the internet.
30-40% of victims are abused by a family member.
Another 50% are abused by someone outside of the family whom they know and trust.
Approximately 40% are abused by older or larger children whom they know.
Therefore, only 10% are abused by strangers.
http://www.darkness2light.org/KnowAbout/statistics_2.asp
This is just to show that the problem is VERY widepread and that there is good reason to be over-protective. Strangers are obviously the least of your worries but people you don't know are more likely to take a bold approach that seems innocent (IMO).
I'm not trying to go off-topic, just pointing out why people are and should be careful. I would question the motive of anyone asking to take pictures of my kids, because generally, most people wouldn't be interested in my kids at all. The odds of someone being interested in my kids because they're beautiful are much less than the odds of someone being interested because they're a pervert.
All that aside, I'm NOT an overprotective parent. I give my kids a healthy dose of independence when they show that they are responsibe enough for it. The key is to help them learn to trust their gut, not their rational thoughts. I've been freaked out to the point of panic before just from the sight of some people who were normal-looking (because of my gut insinct, but I won't go into the situation now). At the same time, I've been around some pretty scary-looking people and had no instinctual reaction.
All in all, however, it's not a good idea to take how someone looks and decide they're a pervert. It sucks to live in a society where we can't trust anyone because of the bad few.