each metering system adapts better to certain situations, but you obviously can use any of them in any situation. However, as mentioned, you have to know how they work to interpret correctly the camera's metering.
spot metering is the one that requires more knowledge on light and metering, and most of the people will only use it for difficult metering situations.
At most situations, either center-weighted or matrix will give you more easily a nice metering than spot. Portraits, for example, are a typical case for using center-weighted. Matrix can be nicer when you have different subjects somehow dispersed.
But then that doesn't mean each situation has its metering system. It depends on personal preferences and on to which one is accustomed. If you're been shooting almost exclusively with spot and like the results, keep doing it. To me it sounds a little weird, but who cares!
-by the way, I see now that Big Mike clarifies it is not really spot metering you've been using. So that's not so weird...