For me the issue here has less to do with how a neg compares to a RAW file, as much as it has to do with the control and precision in processing available in Photoshop (or other software) compared to what is possible in the darkroom by hand, or with automated processing and printing machines.
I got into doing the processing on my own because more control almost always ended up in a better finished print than what even full service labs could do for me with their automated printing machines. I used to spend entire afternoons, if not days, making unsharp and contrast masks for a single 4x5 exposure, and I'd never even bother with it for 35mm. And that's all work done before even starting the printing process. Now with PS even my snapshots can have that sort of attention, and if I spend an entire afternoon on a file, it's going to be close to perfect.
I think digital processing, whether scanned film or from a DSLR, offers so much more control that it's really hard to beat. I still enjoy printing in my traditional BW darkroom, but I don't bother with any pain-in-the-butt methods or techniques anymore. I use contrast filters, burn, and dodge. If I need more than that I know it's a lot less stress just to scan the neg, and work on the file.
I am not as good at making prints via ink jet yet as I am using traditional wet methods, but I have friends who have have the right equipment and have learned the skills to produce ink jet prints that look as good or better than ciba/ilfochrome prints or BW gelatin silver prints. Of course if you aren't willing to take the time to learn the necessary skills and gain the experience, or just don't like working with computers then it's not going to work. I've put in over 15 years learning to print gelatin silver prints; I don't think it's going to take me that long to learn to create inkjet prints that look just as good.
Beyond the results I'm getting, I get a lot more satisfaction being more involved in the processing, and I don't care if I do the work in the darkroom or on a computer. I used to be pretty apathetic about working in color because I hated dropping it off at the lab for them to process and print. I much prefer bringing them a file from film or DSLR that I've had my grubby hands on. That's another great thing about dropping off files: lazy lab techs can't scratch or get their greasy finger prints on my originals.

If they trash the CD I just make another.