thanks for all the comments guys, yeah focus isn't on the face, but i didn't want it to be. I had considered that, but eh idk, i didn't feel like it mattered that much here, and i wanted the crotch area you don't see to be in focus. like if her face was sharp you would be looking at that more when for me its more about whats being suggested,and that means skin+unbuttoned pants needed to be sharp.
erave, i did lose something in the eyes in my processing, but i didn't sharpen them, i softened around them, i def want the eyes to not look as muddy, thanks ill see what i can do!