So I have a bully

Kazooie · Feb 28, 2014

Apparently when I was out of town preforming, my choir teacher sat down the class and told them that it's not ok to bully me. Specifically me. By name. Which is cool, because she's practically my second mother. And then I learned today that the footbally person that I have 2 classes with and am friends with picked up the bully and told him to leave me alone. Literally picked him up. And I still have no idea who this bully is. It's weird, no one's messed with me since like 4 years ago. But I seriously love the people I know right now.

Braineack · Feb 28, 2014

snitches get stitches?

12sndsgood · Feb 28, 2014

If you haven't been bullied in 4 years is there a possibility your choir teacher is a bully along with your footbally friend? If your not being bullied it seems like they are bullying an innocent person....

Light Guru · Feb 28, 2014

Sounds like you need to have a talk with your choir teacher.

It is possible that others see people picking on you and you are just used to it and therefore don't recognize what they are doing.

Josh66 · Feb 28, 2014

That's kind of weird.

If you are not in fact being bullied, and yet are being singled out as a person who is being bullied - is that not bullying?

:lol:

Light Guru might be onto something. Maybe you have been "bullied", but didn't recognize it. (Is it still bullying if the person being bullied doesn't know that they're being bullied?)

And if this was such a big problem, why did she wait till you left to say something to the class?

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I mean, it could have easily been a "Look, guys - bullying will not be tolerated in this class" thing, and avoid having to single anyone out.

Overread · Feb 28, 2014

Not all bullies bully directly at a person. Sometimes they'll drop snide comments and remakes and rumours behind a persons back which in turn results in a casual background distrust/social exclusion for that person. It's a really nasty form because its often very hard to detect early on and can be tricky to work out who started it all

robbins.photo · Feb 28, 2014

Overread said:
Not all bullies bully directly at a person. Sometimes they'll drop snide comments and remakes and rumours behind a persons back which in turn results in a casual background distrust/social exclusion for that person. It's a really nasty form because its often very hard to detect early on and can be tricky to work out who started it all

So, you beat the crap out of them. Yup.. that sounds fair.. lol

Kazooie · Mar 1, 2014

Nahh, my teacher and the football guy are really good friends of mine! I came out to pretty much everyone this year, so I'm guessing the bully person is taking advantage of that.

pixmedic · Mar 1, 2014

Kazooie said:
Nahh, my teacher and the football guy are really good friends of mine! I came out to pretty much everyone this year, so I'm guessing the bully person is taking advantage of that.

just start complimenting the bully's a$$ a lot, and make random references to golf balls and garden hoses.
its either going to make him uncomfortable enough to back off, or get you a date. win/win!