I always see gorgeous portraits (especially brides!) looking out the window in a dramatic B&W. I know this is a very loaded question but I just want to hear how people go about getting those shots. Everytime I try that I always get the light around the window way blown out and the person is a silhouette. And I don't have an exposure meter either which I know doesn't help. I know I can't be given exact settings to use, but what setting should I mess around with the most to figure it all out? Thanks!!