Hi Arishia and a big welcome to the friendliest forum around!
Start by reading the beginners FAQ at the top here as this contains some fundamentals, a number of more advanced things and many interesting snippets. Then if you want people to expand or clarify an area, then just ask - nobody will be "above" listening and helping.
As far as kit goes, there are essentially (arguably!) three main types of people here - purist film types, digital advocates and people who use both. I fall into the first category and I would say that you should start with something with a limited number of features using 35mm film which will help you grasp the basic relationship of picture speed, depth-of-field and amount of light. To do this, I'd recommend buying a big brand camera which is totally manual. A 1960's or 1970's Canon, Nikon, Pentax, Olympus with a 50mm lens would be ideal. This type of camera can produce world-class photographs and you'll probably keep it forever! Manual SLR's can be had very cheaply - here's an example of a couple of cameras I use regularly:
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Conversely, a digital camera can help you learn composition and focussing more quickly and cheaply as you can snap away. Some (myself included) might say that this does not promote as thorough a thinking process and that you'll get reasonable results through luck very quickly, but the road to understanding may be longer. Also, a digital SLR is really the only way to get the best results and control - many compacts do not let you set things as easily (or at all) and this is an essential part of capturing the image you visualise. Digital SLRs are much more expensive than manual SLRs and devalue in a different way.
Books are great - there are literally hundreds like this one which may help you before you spend your hard earned cash.
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Courses are quite expensive and usually require you to have a camera before starting, but check out your local adult education centres and colleges for good value education, but possibly save this option until you're started.
This site! It's great - just ask a question, post your results and get feedback (read the critique rules first though!).
Good luck and a warm welcome again.
Rob