On another forum there was a tread asking people what in a photograph is the most important to them. Many said "sharpness".
I then realized that it seems depth of field has become an enemy to many photographers, mostly digital.
So I started a thread asking if you are a technologist or artist. The thread wasn't too popular.
I think this is like the difference between people who like vinyl VS HD digital audio. With the so-called analog sound, it's the music that lovers appreciate. However with digital audio lovers, it's often the quality of the sound they are after.
In photography, I cannot make a clear cut. If I am shooting nature, I'd like my images to be sharp. If I am doing street shots and portraits, then I want to play with depth of field. Either way, I don't make judgment based on the technicality of the photography. I care most about the story the photograph conveys. Story is something no technology can foster. It's about the right moment with the right eye using the right way to present it. There's no rule that defines how it should be done.
I loves my F1.2 50mm because it can give me somewhat soft photos when I turn it to the largest aperture. Since I mostly use it for cultural themed photographs, it's perfect.
I just think that when images get too sharp, it feel very impersonal, almost strange, because that's not how your brain reads images presented by your eyes. In many ways, film, due to current scanning technology, helps to tone down the sharpness. It feels much more real and satisfying. It's the subject that is talking to me, not the pixels.
For the most part when I show my photos to friends who don't know how I take my photos, they never thought they are looking at scanned negatives. They are usually surprised when I tell them so. My point is, I don't really care if they can tell by looking at the images. All I care about is if they received the messages that I tried to convey through the photographs.