The flowers look a little over-exposed on my monitor. See how a lot of the detail is lost in a blob of yellow?
Otherwise, #1 is nice and your focus is spot-on. I don't love the second one, since I'm a big "rule of thirds" person (aka: your subject is centered, which doesn't work for me), and your main subject (the insect) seems to be out of focus as well.
One more vote for 1 - with a bit of pp, it is too bright as it is right now. The flower is not totally blown, I am sure the missing detail can be recovered.