The D402 has mulitiple capacitors inside, not just one, big single capacitor, so if one has two lights plugged into outlets 3 and 4, and the power distribution switch is set to Asymmetrical mode, the system distributes only a total of 200 Watt-seconds to the "back channel". The capacitor can store up to 400 Watt-seconds' worth of energy, but it does not need to "dump" all of it with every firing. There is no "lost" power. I'm not sure what you are talking about, really.
I own a couple D402's, as well as a D202, a D604, and a D1602. The D1602 is a nice pack to own. It has full, half, and also the old-school 200 Watt-second "Low" option, which means that of 1600 total, stored Watt-seconds, the pack can siphon off a mere 200 W-s, or 1/8 power, allowing even an old-technology pack to fire at blistering speed when in Low mode.
With the D402, there really is no "lost" power in Asymmetrical mode. If you want 200 W-s each from two heads, plug them into outlets 1 and 2; if you want only 100 Watt-seconds from 2 heads, plug them into outlets 3 and 4.
The other, unstated aspect here is that when symmetrical or asymmetrical also affects the MODELING LIGHT brightness, which gives you options. If you want two lights at 100 W-S, you can ALSO turn the pack to Half power, and use outlets 1 and 2 in Symmetrical mode, and keep the modeling lights BRIGHT....OR, you can plug the same lights into outlets 3 and 4 and go to Asymmetrical, which drops the modeling lights down.
There is no mathematical model you are missing, you're just not familiar with the way the system actually works. When you combine a WEAKER pack with a higher-power pack, or use three or four lights, THEN the modeling lamp brightness options start to make more visual sense,and are actually pretty useful in gauging lighting ratios by sight.
This system was designed around 40 years ago,more or less. It's just old-school. It's very basic and reliable and straightforward.