...and surprised I haven't yet. My mother (who at 62 does not seem to appreciate a 32 yr old son helping her move 3000k miles) who has managed to alienate everyone else in her life, litterly, only has me. And her mental issues (bi-polar and borderline personality) have her COMPLETELY off base of reality and how society and the world works. She has one of those "my way or the highway" mentalitys, has no grasp on rational thinking. I make about $679 a month until I get full time, and give it all to her to pay for food, the car, and bills. I get $30 for gas. :meh: She has this idea that how she distrubutes that money once I give it to her, and she fails to inform me how this happens, that I have no rights or say living with her. This has not changed in 32 years of my life, and I was blissfully happy when I lived on my own for years. I moved back to NY to HELP HER, and all I get is yelled at for completely irrational sh*t. So irrational, you can't even respond to it. I usually just give her a "WTF??" expression. When she is wrong or mistaken about something, according to her, she is still right. Or she will say something, and then two days later say it never happened, and say the opposite happened. :madmad: I am at wits end here!!! I just have to blow off some of this steam. I have no money at the moment, I left a great job, and great apt in a bad state, to help her. Even the family refuses to even aknowlege her. I am a fool I guess, or just tttoooo tender hearted. What should I do?? I am loosing what's left of my joy, sanity and paitence.