The attached picture is very good. The butterfly is sharp and you focus on the butterfly which I would too but I would use at least f/8 or f/11 to get the faces in decent sharpness. Didn't you have enough light to use a smaller aperture like f/8?
No, It was a very dark butterfly room... I would have used f/8 as I do when I have enough light but this is what I bought the lens for you see.
Looking at the actual EXIF info of the butterfly shot you posted, your aperture was at f/4 on a 50mm f/1.8 lens on a D3000. With those plugged into a DOF calculator, you can see what your acceptable depth of field to be in focus is, if you have the last piece of information needed, which is the distance from the camera to the subject.
If the distance was, say, 3 feet away, then with that lens on that camera at that aperture, you have about 2" that can be in focus. If the focus is on the butterfly, as it appears to be, what all is going to be in focus is the area from about 1" in front of the butterfly to 1" behind it. Anything out of that range will not be in focus.
If the distance was, say, 4 feet away, then you get about 4" total, 2 inches in front of the butterfly to 2" behind.
If the distance was, say, 5 feet away, then you get about 5.5" total, a little less than 3 inches in front of the butterfly to a little less than 3 inches behind.
And so on.
So then, the question is, how far behind the butterfly is the person you ALSO want to be sharp in the photo? Let's just say, 1 and a half feet. Well then, you've got to first focus on something half way between them in order to figure out the distance you need to be at to get the 3/4 of a foot you need for both to be in focus, which would be pretty much impossible unless you actually HAVE something half way between them to focus on, OR you've got to just deal with the fact that you can focus on the butterfly or the person, and then to get both in focus, you need to be far enough away to get the full 3 feet you need so that everything either in 1.5 feet in front of or behind whatever's focused on is also in focus.
The DOF calculator gives us the answer: You'd need to be about 12.5 feet away to get that full 3 feet of focus range with that lens on that camera at that aperture setting.
Of course, that means that both the person and the butterfly, while both being in focus, will be a lot smaller in the photo.
But if you want to be closer so that your subjects will be larger in the photo, what's the alternative? Close down the aperture to get more depth of field.
At f/8, you'd need to be 9 feet away. At f/11, you'd need to be 7.5 feet away. At f/16, you'd need to be just over 6' away. At f/22, you'd need to be just a little over 5' away.
Of course, you don't have enough light to do that, so NOW what?
You either open up the ISO quite a lot to compensate, which will introduce more noise, enough so that it may look downright horrible when you get home, see it, and realize it's too late to do anything about it, OR you make the shutter longer, which will mean that anything that moves, whether you or the subjects, will blur them, which is also unacceptable.
OR...
You wrap your head around the fact that you need to learn how to use a flash, so that you can get REAL CONTROL over all the other aspects to get the kinds of photo results you want:
1. The lower ISO, for clean, non-noisy photos.
2. The faster shutter speeds, for sharp, non-blurry shots.
3. The smaller aperture, for good depth of field to include everything you want in focus.