The images are down, all of them. When I signed up for this pageant the purpose was to take the images and then just donate a CD to the Pagean coordinators for use for their websites, but somehow it was announced that the images would be on my website for parents to view.
My only purpose then was for the parents and any other pageant moms to see that I can photograph pageants and so forth.
I've spoken to the parent and try as I may, she is just too difficult. I apologized repeatedly, I informed her that spoken to the cordinators and that they had all made sure that everyone knew I was there and where the images would be.
She didn't want to listen, infact she hung up on me...the images are down and I hope nothing more comes of this.
I just got an email from the pageant director telling me how sorry she is for all this and that she has gotten so many calls from parents wanting to take legal action and so forth...
I guess its just a matter of waiting.
I'll address these items in bold. Before I do, I'll make it known that I'm merely a law student, not an attorney. I am not licensed to practice law in any state, and what I'm going to say is not to be take as legal advice. If it is taken as legal advice to the detriment of the user, I cannot be held responsible: I am disclaiming all warranties to the accuracy of this information, dependent on your jurisdiction, and a greater investigation of the facts. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
It's a shame that you were intimidated by the threat of legal action to take your photographs off the internet. I think you made the right decision to pull the photos down, though, and just bide your time and see what the feelings of those parents were.
Apparently that lady's a *****. Point blank. They don't want to listen to reason, or hear another side of a story--it's their way or the highway. I hate that for you, but you don't want to deal with someone so unreasonable.
If you are concerned about being sued, you should go ahead and talk to an attorney, locally. Many will do a free consultation meeting to chat with you about what your rights are, and what defenses you have to any courses of legal action that may be taken. You should also discuss with that attorney, if you choose to go that route, whether or not you would be protected by the charity that hired you for the shoot (it would also behoove you to discuss this with them). Rather than waiting and getting slapped with a lawsuit, I'd go ahead and be proactive and get a legal opinion on your rights, and then if something does come of it, you can be ready.
I don't feel like the parents have a legal claim, unless there's something going on with your website where the photographs were interspersed with that of nudes (which I doubt) or something like that. This is truly a sh*tty situation, and I hate that over-caffeinated, helicopter parents have put you in such a spot. People really are disappointing sometimes.