Since ive been on this site, ive read many times people have recomended that so and so get the book "understanding exposure". So figured id give it a read, what a tremendous difference it has made, if your a newbie to photography, its a must read. Now im curious if someone can point me in the direction of good books, or videos, or self explanations on lighting. Whats the difference in uses of flashes or strobes or just lights that are constantly on. I have a d90, and bought an sb600, and a 5in1 reflector, and still cant get a good pic with it, just seems so bright and its on 1/64th. so i bounced it off the reflector, and it was a huge shadow, so shot it through the white 1 and same thing. how far back should the flash be? should i get an umbrella or softbox? whats best for indoor vs. outdoor? I dont expect anyone to answer all these or make me completly understand thats why im asking for a book or an explain all site for beginners or something. Or feel free to just throw in any pointers you mite have. I appreciate any and all the help.