I'm looking for a book to teach me everything I need to know to get started from lighting to aperture (since I barely know what that is), to posing, to framing. EVERYTHING. It should be in the "Photography for Dummies" format, heck should I get that one? Something specifically geared towards an SLR setup would be cool. What important is that I can read this book in small amounts at a time without covering so much technical data that I forget what I read the day before. I have 3 kids under 5 so time is of the essence, I don't get to read for hours at a time. Any suggestions? Thanks!