I've been shooting for about 40 years. I've been shooting SLRs for over 30 of those years, and DSLRs for about 10 years. I've studied and practiced all kinds of different styles, genres, lighting, and so forth, bought and studies and learned from untold thousands of dollars worth of books and videos and courses and gear (most of which I still have) - and I still do all of that all the time; study, practice, buy stuff and shoot, shoot, shoot, shoot, sssssshooooooot - because I LOVE IT.
I make a little money with it here and there, by accident and word of mouth. Got a couple of e-stores online that people stumble into on occasion and get a few to several sales through them each month, get contacted by folks who see my stuff on various photo sites like Flickr and Panoramio that want to purchase rights to use my photos as stock for advertising and so on from time to time, get hired to do a portrait once in a while, etc. But I don't advertise, I don't promote myself, I don't seek out photo jobs or opportunities for pay. I don't much care about that side of it at all, to be honest.
Why? Because I'm not a pro, plain and simple. I'm a photography enthusiast, a hobbyist, I'm in it for the pure enjoyment I get out of it; To have fun with it, nothing more, nothing less. No matter how good someone else thinks my stuff is, no matter how confident I feel about my abilities, no matter how competent I usually am with camera gear, no matter how much money I make on the side with it - I am not a professional photographer. I don't depend on it to pay my bills (and that's a good thing because I don't make enough with it to even pay for the gear I keep buying! LOL!).
And that's all okay with me.
So, just to set the record straight, not EVERYONE who gets a decent camera thinks they're a pro in a few months.