Teebs
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Not as crazy as you think it sounds. I won't give up on photography because I love it dearly and it runs in my veins! However recently I had a friend of a friend contact me the night before her wedding with a cry for help. Now before I get into any of it I will just start with I hate wedding photography. I don't find the thrill in it that others may. And currently I am moving at half the speed I should be thanks to torn ligaments in my knee. So the idea of trying to be everywhere to get that one perfect shot gives me heartburn even now.
So the following is a bit long but...
So onto this bride. I had RSVP'd to be a guest at this wedding so I was going to be there. The night before the bride contacts me and lets me know that her current 'photographer' does not have the right stuff to shoot her ceremony. I had done our mutual friends wedding the year before so she was familiar with my work and apparently figured I'd jump at the opportunity. I really wish I'd said no.
What should have been a simple shoot was a nightmare for both me and the person I was having help me as the second shooter. I knew there was just no way for me to get around the room in time so I pleaded with a fellow photographer to assist. He was happy to oblige. Man did I get as lucky as the bride was that I'd said Ok.
Since I was going to be there anyway I carpooled with one of the bridesmaids. I wish I had not. The other person who the bride was supposed to have shoot everything but the ceremony never showed up to do the pre-wedding session. So I did that as well. And the ceremony. Then the after ceremony group photos (which I won't even begin to tell you about because that was a horror story all it's own). And last but not least the reception. All of it. Every bit of the wedding. Thanks to the rush of things we had never agreed on a set amount for the wedding and since I have not established myself I would never charge what an established photographer would so I don't even have a specific number that I can say 'this is what you need to pay.'
So the person who went totally wrong was myself. No contracts. No pre-arrangement. Just "Hey shoot this." Naturally I am not going to spend every available moment working through the images I took to provide her with beautiful photos when the subject of payment came up as "Well tell me what hours you put in and we'll see how much it'll be." I have other clients who have paid up front and will receive their items in a timely beautifully mastered fashion. However I get messages from the bride "Where is this SPECIFIC PHOTO." In the end I uploaded a large chunk of images into a special gallery with watermarks splashed through them for her viewing pleasure. She was not happy because again she wanted every specific photo accounted for.
Are you still with me? I know I tell a long story. At this point I have the idea to simply burn her a disk of JPGs, hand her the prints I printed for preview purposes, and call it done. Pay or not I am pretty much ready to forget this disaster ever happened. But in the back of my mind I know that it isn't the solution so I guess I just need some fresh eyes when it comes to the disaster I unwittingly walked into.
So the following is a bit long but...
So onto this bride. I had RSVP'd to be a guest at this wedding so I was going to be there. The night before the bride contacts me and lets me know that her current 'photographer' does not have the right stuff to shoot her ceremony. I had done our mutual friends wedding the year before so she was familiar with my work and apparently figured I'd jump at the opportunity. I really wish I'd said no.
What should have been a simple shoot was a nightmare for both me and the person I was having help me as the second shooter. I knew there was just no way for me to get around the room in time so I pleaded with a fellow photographer to assist. He was happy to oblige. Man did I get as lucky as the bride was that I'd said Ok.
Since I was going to be there anyway I carpooled with one of the bridesmaids. I wish I had not. The other person who the bride was supposed to have shoot everything but the ceremony never showed up to do the pre-wedding session. So I did that as well. And the ceremony. Then the after ceremony group photos (which I won't even begin to tell you about because that was a horror story all it's own). And last but not least the reception. All of it. Every bit of the wedding. Thanks to the rush of things we had never agreed on a set amount for the wedding and since I have not established myself I would never charge what an established photographer would so I don't even have a specific number that I can say 'this is what you need to pay.'
So the person who went totally wrong was myself. No contracts. No pre-arrangement. Just "Hey shoot this." Naturally I am not going to spend every available moment working through the images I took to provide her with beautiful photos when the subject of payment came up as "Well tell me what hours you put in and we'll see how much it'll be." I have other clients who have paid up front and will receive their items in a timely beautifully mastered fashion. However I get messages from the bride "Where is this SPECIFIC PHOTO." In the end I uploaded a large chunk of images into a special gallery with watermarks splashed through them for her viewing pleasure. She was not happy because again she wanted every specific photo accounted for.
Are you still with me? I know I tell a long story. At this point I have the idea to simply burn her a disk of JPGs, hand her the prints I printed for preview purposes, and call it done. Pay or not I am pretty much ready to forget this disaster ever happened. But in the back of my mind I know that it isn't the solution so I guess I just need some fresh eyes when it comes to the disaster I unwittingly walked into.