A creepy guy approached to me.

[tecboy]

Just remember one thing:
To others, YOU are the "creepy guy".

He was creepy, and I felt uncomfortable the way he talk to me.

Why did you say that?

 

[tecboy]

I don't know what's up with you guys. It was a scary moment for me, and I have to deal with.

 

[Josh66]

I don't know what's up with you guys. It was a scary moment for me, and I have to deal with.

Maybe you could describe the situation in more detail for us, because from what you've said so far it sounds pretty innocent.

 

[charlie76]

I don't know what's up with you guys. It was a scary moment for me, and I have to deal with.

Be a tec-man tec-boy

 

[tecboy]

I don't know what's up with you guys. It was a scary moment for me, and I have to deal with.

Maybe you could describe the situation in more detail for us, because from what you've said so far it sounds pretty innocent.

What do you want to know? I was worry I might get into a fight by talking to him. I just want to avoid any problem.

 

[tecboy]

Beside, he sounded like a bully.

 

[amolitor]

Just remember one thing:
To others, YOU are the "creepy guy".

He was creepy, and I felt uncomfortable the way he talk to me.

Why did you say that?

The point is that you were almost certainly making HIM feel uncomfortable as well.

 

[Josh66]

I don't know what's up with you guys. It was a scary moment for me, and I have to deal with.

Maybe you could describe the situation in more detail for us, because from what you've said so far it sounds pretty innocent.

What do you want to know? I was worry I might get into a fight by talking to him. I just want to avoid any problem.

I don't know ... just something more specific than "he was creepy".

Was he aggressive? Why were you worried that it could end in a fight?

 

[tecboy]

Maybe you could describe the situation in more detail for us, because from what you've said so far it sounds pretty innocent.

What do you want to know? I was worry I might get into a fight by talking to him. I just want to avoid any problem.

I don't know ... just something more specific than "he was creepy".

Was he aggressive? Why were you worried that it could end in a fight?

Maybe I was wrong. It was a friendly environment. I talked to a lot people. Everyone was friendly. This guy approached me, and it was bizarred. Why did he ask my name? Why can he talk to the director? Why did he ask me why I photographed this event?

Have you ever photographed a public place, and some people approached you in odd way?

 

[Josh66]

Dude, he probably just wanted your number, lol.

Or maybe he thought you knew the people in charge and could give him a 'hook up' or something.

It really sounds like he was just making small talk with you - hitting on you.

 

[tecboy]

Dude, he probably just wanted your number, lol.

Or maybe he thought you knew the people in charge and could give him a 'hook up' or something.

It really sounds like he was just making small talk with you - hitting on you.

Okay. It was awkward.

 

[amolitor]

You guys have a weird idea about what San Jose is like. It's not some kind of giant gay hookup joint. It's just a city.

 

[Trever1t]

That's right! The giant gay hookup site is an hour north.

 

[Josh66]

You guys have a weird idea about what San Jose is like. It's not some kind of giant gay hookup joint. It's just a city.

I didn't think the guy was trying to hook up because it happened in San Jose, I thought the guy was trying to hook up because it seemed like he was hitting on the OP, from what he's told us.

 

[Derrel]

That's right! The giant gay hookup site is an hour north.

Funny, Bill! But no, seriously Techboy, a gut feeling I have based on "where" this encounter took place makes me think that yeah, the guy might very well have been hitting on you. "The arts" and "art openings" and "gallery openings" and so on draw a pretty good cross-section of the non-traditional sexual orientation crowd.