I agree with you completely. I love portraits and do not care if the model is nude, bikini, fully dressed etc.. Too me, the magic is in the lighting, pose, and mood of the model.
My girlfriend often calls the photos "trashy" or "that photographer is just a perv" but i disagree 100% with those statements.
I often think when girls (most men dont have a problem because if they dont care about the art side atleast they have a beautiful model to look at) have a problem it is more of an insecurity within themselves. Most are quick to call girls who show off their body "trashy" because they don't feel comfortablle enough with their body to flaunt it. But of course, some people have moral issues with the subjects as well which i guess i can understand.
Another question to add though is why is it mostly women that i see? I enjoy the work of a lot of photographers who do this kind of work and never see men posing for them?
To comment on my own question: If i were to see a male posing nude in one of these shots i would most likely skip over it. Now i am in no way homophobic but something about seeing a man naked is a huge turnoff (not that seeing these types of photos of women turns me on but i am sure you guys know what i mean) and i prefer not to see it. Is this the same way women feel about other women? I always find women to be way more comfortable around other women naked then guys are. I personally dont feel comfortable showering at the gym after my workouts but maybe thats just me?