There is a large club the next city over. A young friend went to one meeting. He was laughed at because of his age and his entry level camera. At the time I thought about going, but changed my mind since I had an entry level camera.
The young friend found a local portrait photographer that mentored him and he was her 2nd shooter for weddings. Fast forward 8 years and that young friend is now working on a journalism master's degree. He was one numerous awards.
My local FB photography group has meetups and the seasoned help the newbies. All levels are welcome. At the last meetup I shadowed 2 professionals and listened to how they directed the models. A very good experience! There was a discussion on the FB page about clubs and competitions. Most were not interested in competions and the general consensus was that the FB group had no egos. Most that come to the meetups I would estimate are in their 20s and 30s. A few more older. Sometimes I think I am the oldest at the meetups. The great thing about the group is that age and experience doesn't matter.