I think you can get so wrapped up in producing "that digital image with pop" that you forget to look at the subject.
Nature is not always sharp, it is quite soft at the edges. Animals, clouds, leaves, delicate flowers etc, all soft at the edges. Also every time you look out of your window your perception of distance is so linked to the reducing contrast and detail you see naturally that you seem to have stopped thinking about it.
The edges of the shadows are also linked to the diameter if the light source, sunlight is a point source and produces sharp shadows whereas diffuse light in the shadows produces a diffuse shadow, also the local contrast is lower in the shadows.
By tone-mapping and sharpening you've given every area on the image the same "absolute" values and removed not only the perception of depth but also the impression of light. It is the relative differences of colour tone and contrast within an image that give so many indications of depth, light, colour, etc. not their absolute values.
So is this really representative of the scene, or is it a desire to produce a "digital image with pop"? I think you've missed both, sorry.