Sage advise from a wise ole country boy....
Youre Fixin To Mess Up
Just recently I had the privilege of doing a show at Samford University in Birmingham, [Alabama]. Some of the young people there said, Mr. Clower, whats right and wrong? Tell us, were young people, tell us, whats right and wrong.
Well you ask a pretty good question. So I worked me up a rule of thumb Id like to recommend to my own children, and to young people.
If youre fixin to make a decision about whats right and whats wrong in your life, do you ask other peoples opinion about it? Thats a pretty good indication your fixin to mess up. I was getting ready for a date one night when I was a little ole boy. And I walked into the side room and I said, Mama, is my shirt dirty? She said, Son, if youre in doubt, its dirty. Pull it off and getcha another. So if youre fixin to do something, and you want to know if its right or not, number one: do you ask other peoples opinion about it?
Number two: do you argue with yourself? Man, I have spent a million mile on the highway arguing with Jerry about I oughta do a certain thing and I knew in my heart, I was lying. So if youre arguin with yourself, pretty good indication you should not do it.
Number three: do you feel uneasy when you do it? Had ya just as soon for somebody not see you doin what it is youd done decided is alright for you to do?
And Number four: Can you give thanks and say Lord, I thank ya for providing this for me.? Alright, youd done made up your mind: youre gonna do it. The Bible says, give thanks for all things. So when you do it, can ya say Lord, thank ya for providing this for me. And I some kinda thank ya, for fixin it where I can commit to what it is Im doin.?
What is right or wrong?, Do you ask other people?, Do you aruge with yourself?, Do you feel uneasy when you do it?, Can ya give thanks and say Lord, I thank ya for providing this for me.? If you cant, you better watch out
Youre fixin to mess up.
Jerry Clower1926-1998