I think I love getting bashed on by you guys why, why , why. No I haven't been a second shooter this is a small intimate wedding nothing fancy or blown out. I was just wanting tips if they were out there. I'm doing this all free as I have no experience at a wedding except taking photos as a guest. Even though the last wedding I did my son was in and I got some candid shots that were loved more then the posed shots. Don't worry I will post photos to get bashed some more I think I like to suffer
Alright man, the bashing wasn't called for entirely. We just have 4 threads like this a day on here, and we get a little angry when people can't use the search function to find them (as suggested above).
That being said, what camera do you have? lenses? flash units?
I ask because weddings generally equal low light, which means you need a camera with good high iso performance. Generally only more expensive cameras do this well. Even they can't pull enough light sometimes, so you'll need a flash unit for sure. And the kit lenses that come with most dslrs aren't going to help much, because they simply aren't fast enough. They don't let enough light in.
And that's just the equipment end of things. How about you? How much experience do you have in photography? Ever shot portraits before? (you'll need to shoot posed shots at a wedding) Do you shoot in auto mode, or do you have understanding of manual settings and concepts (shutter speed, aperture, iso, depth of field, etc)
Answer these questions, and we'll be able to give you some more appropriate answers. But if you say that you are using a low end dslr, and shoot in auto mode, I can already tell you that everyone is going to tell you that you should tell them they need to hire a professional, because trust me: a wedding is one of the most stressful things you can shoot... You only get one chance at the shots, and the bride will kill you if you miss them or screw them up. Do you wanna risk your friendship with the bride?