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I found out I have a 34 year old brother

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Last June, I found out for the first time that I have a younger brother, Derek. I won’t go too much into why I didn’t know about him, but he had known about our sister and me. He assumed we knew about him too but just didn’t care because we never reached out, so he never did either. If I had known, I absolutely would have. I wish I could have had him in my life much sooner. Derek is my half-brother on my dad’s side, but for whatever reason we were never told about him. My mom finally decided last summer that she couldn’t keep it a secret anymore. She and my dad have been divorced for 36 years, and until then, she felt it was his responsibility to tell us. I have a lot of mixed feelings about my parents' choices in all of this, but I've decided to let that go and focus on what matters most: that Derek and I are in each other’s lives now. It turned out he lives within walking distance of me, and we’ve since become like best friends. Finding out about him and getting close has been one of the best things to ever happen to me. While I wish we’d had a childhood together, I’m just grateful to have him in my life now.

I’ve taken his photos several times since meeting him. He was a little uncomfortable at first but I think he quickly started to enjoy it. He wears pretty much the same outfit in each photo, but I think that may just be his designated weekend outfit.

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What a thing to suddenly find out! It's wonderful that you two have bonded.

I do believe I detect a resemblance. ;)

Lovely set of images. Congrats on finding your brother!
 
Congratulations
 
What a touching story. Wish you both a long and happy life together.
 
I'm so sorry you missed out on knowing your brother for so long. Congratulations on finding him and that you live so close together and are able to catch up on missed time. What a gift!
 
And just by the way a neat set of casual portraits.
 
Congratulations
Thank you.
What a touching story. Wish you both a long and happy life together.
Thank you so much!
I'm so sorry you missed out on knowing your brother for so long. Congratulations on finding him and that you live so close together and are able to catch up on missed time. What a gift!
Thank you. I do get a little depressed thinking about what we missed out on, but just having him in my life now makes up for it.
And just by the way a neat set of casual portraits.
Thank you.
 

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