I must have had a 300 word post made, but deicded to shorten it all up to this single comment:
The day you spend less time focusing on other people in jealous diatribe, and concentrate on yourself and your skills, thats the day you will find that your pictures improve. Trying to foist your opinions and ways of doing things on others is a waste of time. No one in their right mind should or would ever consider what you said, in the manner you stated it, with any great level of credibility.
Nuff said.
Jerry, you've mentioned twice in this thread that you spent $7500 in 6 months, and that didn't even include software which isn't cheap either. You've also mentioned several times about how there's no one set of rules, how everybody has different budgets, and that as long as you're enjoying yourself why care about what anybody else thinks? Yet now when I post my $0.02 suddenly you feel the need to attack me personally and play the "jealousy" card. Why? Aren't you enjoying yourself? If so, then why do you care what I say? Seems you've had a change of heart. I'm just going to assume that deep down inside you feel guilty about spending so much money and how you couldn't control yourself, and thus I've trigged your "jealousy card" defense mechanism.
The funny thing is, I don't even consider $7500 a whole ton of money for this hobby, so relax.
I wasn't even talking about you. Did you not see me mention the "true" high-rollers at 40, 50, or even $60k?

I'm just a 70-200VR and a 17-55 f/2.8 away from $7500, both of which I'll probably own eventually. Or I may pass on both of those and get a D300/FX body instead with the full-frame sensor when it comes out for probably about the same or a little less money. (Nikon has wink-wink confirmed that this is in the works, probably in 2009 sometime). With a D200, an 18-200VR, a few primes, and a nice collection of Sigma lenses you're still being "reasonable" and "economical" in my book, considering how expensive this hobby can get. By the way, how do you like your Sigma lenses? Any trouble with them? Have you needed to send any of them back for recalibration? If so how was the service? Sigma lenses make me nervous, but I'm too cheap to spend tons of money on the Nikkors which cost twice as much.
Anyways, I'm more of a minimalist. I like to have what I "need" and what I can reasonably enjoy, and not much else. I get exactly ZERO enjoyment from super fancy stuff unless I'm truly going to use it for all its worth, so why buy beyond what I truly need if I'm not going to enjoy it or use it to its full potential? When I realize I'm not using something to its full potential or something is just sitting around and collecting dust, I start to feel guilty and want to get rid of it. Want to buy my Nikkor 85mm f/1.8D? I like it, but I just don't use it enough to justify keeping it, and it's $300 sitting in my camera bag. I'm not hurting for cash, but know I'm not ever really going to use it so just want to get rid of it. I like 50mm a lot better and I think I'd like to upgrade to a 50mm f/1.4. I'll sell my 1.8 version and the 85mm to pay for it and some change, even though I could afford to keep all of them if I wanted to. Late last year my wife wanted me to buy some stupid US$50k fancy shmancy car. Money was not the issue,
I was the issue. It's just not me. I'm just not a flashy or showy guy. I wear jeans and a t-shirt 99% of the time. I
fought her and bought a Toyota costing half as much instead and I'm happy as a clam. When it comes time to get a new car for my wife, I'm
all for her getting something really nice in that price range because she truly will enjoy it. She likes "nice stuff", but it's a complete waste on me. I'm happy with Toyotas and Nikon D40's and like to see what I can do with as little "stuff" as possible. Do you understand me a little better now?
BTW cars and photography are sorta the same. Does buying a super fast and fancy car automatically make you a better driver? Hell no. Same with camera gear and photography. Buying the best stuff money can buy simply does not make you a better photographer. Having the nice stuff may boost your confidence and inspire you from within, but the inspiration is what makes the great photo or the better driving skills, not the better gear.
Call it what you want, but it's the truth. I always love seeing younger people in Civics or Saturns and other cheap cars embarassing the hell out of rich bald guys with Corvettes and Porsches at the autocross, just like I love seeing the great photos you can make with a cheap little D40 and the 18-55 kit lens. I always root for the underdog.

Either you'll now understand where I'm coming from and this explanaton will be reasonable, or it won't and nothing I do or say would ever be enough.